I can, I can, I can, I can and I will.
and if you have anything to say that does not contribute to positive growth and moving forward, you will be severed immediately from my life.

I will not let you become me.

I will remain true to myself.

I will remain happy and I will love no matter how much or how little I receive in return.

pep talks to yourself are necessary...don't be afraid to appreciate and love yourself...but maybe make a point of appreciating and loving others too.